Advice I’m giving myself.

DLD blog posts: 

 

#TakingMyOwnAdvice
#UseSocialMediaSmarter

#MentalHealth

#SelfLove

#workPlayHomeLifeBalance

#HopeThisHelpsSomeoneToo

 

New plan for the rest of July: 

 

-Twitch for rehearsals & a substitute for Facebook live

-Twitter for steam of thoughts/brainstorms/comments to celebrities and ppl who inspire me. Promote shows. 

-Desktop Facebook for very special show/life announcements to fam and personal friends!  

-Desktop Facebook for advice/recommendations/conversation from peers 

- Fb messager for communication with ppl i don’t have phone numbers 

 

- Deleted from phone: FB app & Snapchat.

- Added FaceTime to front page

 

- Spend all the extra time being creative, and improving my own bubble and community. Spend less time reading fake news that the sky is falling, and America is a horrible place. We have an unqualified, child-like irrational person who leading our country, but I can’t let that bring me down to a level of immobility and depression. A LOT of us are lucky to be born in this country. Most of us can create the life we want through hard work, and the support of people/animals who love you. I’m feeling balanced, and good, and I want you to feel that too. All the time. I think I only have this one life, and I don’t want to waste any of it with bs.

 

I’m going to dress for success everyday I have the energy for, which I aim to be every day. 

Also, i need to remember to dress in layers and look at the weather before I leave. 

 

I need to schedule time in my calendar to work out.

I need to save for the future and hold myself accountable for sticking to a budget, because just like the lessons of growing a garden, if you plant a seed, and work hard to help it grow. It will bare plenty of fruit to share for yourself and others. 

There IS already enough for everyone. It is only the system and the thoughts of few that are 

preventing other from having an “I’m okay, you’re okay” life. 

 

Smoking weed helps my social anxiety. It gives me something cool to do to give me a break from a conversation.

Remember to force yourself to look people in the eye, and listen and be present in the convo and not distracted. 

Write things down and think them thru before you post them.

Ask for critiques and criticism and try to not take it personally and learn from it.

Be aware of your emotions and how they are effecting other living things and the possible outcomes of irrational actions. Effort to find a mutual understanding of what is irrational, to hold each other to that standard. 

Be an outspoken advocate for things that make sense. Speak out against hate, judgement and things especially that fellow men do, that are NOT okay. Be an ally. Always. Treat it like it’s my job as a white male. It can be a rewarding way to serve and feel like I’m making a difference and fighting for common sense and decency. I wanna fight for and align myself with the good side, however I may see that, no matter if my feeling is a part of the majority or minority. 

Stop liking every status, send a message instead. 

I need to let go of #FOMO

I need to stop writing in this journal now.

Organizing my backpack/manpurse is important to do often... gotta know where my tools are!

 

Remember the piece of advice from Cass as it pertains to work: “put value in everything you’re offering to people” 

 

 

I should make a show called “The Silver Lining”

 

Look at a chore like loading dishes and actually speak out a thankfulness sentence, something like I’m glad I don’t have to wash them by hand. At the same time, listen to an audio book so you are feeling dbl productive at the same time. 

 

❤️🍻🤔🎉♊️☮️💟🕉 all of the time, 

-DLD